Friday, November 18, 2011
Flip the switch
I had an appointment with the doctor the other day. My general practioner. Regular checkup. My doc always asks about my meds, my moods. Told her sometimes I feel down. Yeah I get depressed.
Sometimes I can snap out of it pretty easily, sometimes I can't.
This was one of those times I couldn't.
I wish I could figure out what brings my mood down.
Some days it seems like it comes out of nowhere, and suddenly I am deeply entrenched in emotions that make no sense to me, but sometimes they do.
It can come in waves, like one moment I am fine the next I am not.
Its worse when your alone, or at night, when there is nothing but your own thoughts surrounding you.
I guess its no wonder that it is hard for me to fall asleep because when I feel this way all I do is think about the things that bother me, or what is upsetting me.
The thing that really gets to me is how I can be fine, then just feel totally steeped in it.
Its inexplicable really, unless you have been there, and if you are reading this I hope you never have been.
I recall one of the times that I felt the worst was right before the carcinista had passed. That was end of April early May of this year. I was at a friends house apologizing for the way I had acted, another wonderful thing about this mental condition of mine, I have a tendency to lash out at people that I care about, do and say shit that is totally out of character for me. I don't recall exactly what the conversation was about but I know I was in a dark place and I felt utterly lost.
Its not something you can just snap out of.
So I try to make sense of it all. Figure out what gets me down.
Ultimately I have no idea.
Right now I am feeling pretty fucking good, and man I love this feeling,
The feeling I had before cancer, before Sept 18, 2007.
Then I wonder when my brain chemistry is going to go askew and flip that switch.
Lyrics from Pink's song Perfect:
You're so mean,
When you talk, about yourself,
you were wrong,
Change the voices in your head
make them like you instead
If only it was as easy as the song makes it out to be.
I will continue on the fight against my own mind, when the depression hits, when the switch is flipped, I gotta find the right trigger to put it back.
Until then I will continue to advocate, blog about it,try to destigmatize it.
That's the only thing I can do.
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