project boobies emailed me a link to a NY Times article recently. About this survivor who was complaining about the pink ribbon on everything. To that I can relate. Everything seemed to have a pink ribbon on it. I get that, in October the ribbon was everywhere. That is the only part of the article I can agree upon.
Paraphrasing, she said that the pink ribbon was on everything and it promoted "awareness."
Then she said this,
"The experience of actual women with cancer, women like Rollin, Black, Ford and Rockefeller — women like me — got lost."
So I put on a Save the Tatas shirt or a Project boobies that takes away from your experience with cancer?
She says "Sassy retail campaigns have sprung up everywhere, purporting to “support the cause.”
Ok so as a writer shouldn't you check facts?
In the photo for the blog I am PROUDLY wearing a projectboobies shirt for a tv interview, one that she was complaining about in the article to be sassy and purporting to "support the cause."
Sorry Ms. Orenstein, it does support the cause.
Have you heard of Kokolulu? A free retreat for cancer survivors in Hawaii. A portion of project boobies proceeds goes to fund the retreat. THE FREE RETREAT.
As for Save The TaTas, a company I am familiar with, a company who, whenever I ask for t shirts for a fundraiser or a group the owner Julie Fikse donates to me without question, has according to their website donated $535,000 towards ending breast cancer.
Sorry that diminishes your battle.
Sorry that Kris Carr, survivor and author of Crazy Sexy Cancer bothers you with her positive message.
Does it diminish the battle of the 52 year old survivor who asked my friend for a save the tatas shirt, knowing that she got it from me? Does it diminish the fact that the doctors didn't give her much time to live.
I say No.
Most of the breast cancer survivors I know are in their 20's and 30's so I would instead of wearing as you would want me to a “I ❤ My 72-Year-Old One-Boobied Granny t shirt instead of the tatas or projectboobies shirt I would wear my I ❤ My 27 yr old friend who is a college student and a young adult breast cancer survivor
Because I do.
And a pink ribbon on toilet paper doesn't diminish the battle or the stories of my friends Lani, Angella or Ann, who are survivors, bloggers, and advocates (and Ann at this time is facing a recurrance)
Seeing a pink ribbon everywhere doesn't diminish my battle. It only fuels my fire to advocate for ALL CANCERS even more. I maintained a positive outlook while battling cancer and depression at the same time. I guess I just prefer to live my life positively, even while staring in the face of my own mortality.
No survivor I have ever heard say cancer is fun.
We all know it sucks.
Wrap that up in a pink ribbon.
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